2. Don't ever give your beauty secrets away to him
Girl, don't ever do your hair and makeup
in front of your man! Do it in the bathroom or somewhere he can't see.
Hair and makeup are an illusion that you
control, which probably drew him to you in the first place.
It's like being impressed by a magician, and then the magician reveals
the magic trick! You're no longer impressed! We polled married women in
their sixties, and they all told us that they kept their man in suspense
for all these years. One woman told us her man has never seen her without
her wig! Even if he tells you he likes to see you natural, he'll get bored
and move on to another woman's illusion. Don't always assume he'll be
content seeing the "real" you! However you were when you met
him is what he's attracted to. Even if you gain weight try to keep yourself
looking fabulous.
3. Never overbuild his confidence!
One of the worst things you can do in a relationship
is overbuild a man's confidence. Be very
sparing when it comes to giving him praise or compliments. Praise God
instead. Men need women in this area of their lives because
the world is constantly trying to beat them down all the time, regardless
of how strong they are. When you praise him too much, he'll think he's
the strong one and you're dependent on him. An over praised man will look
to add more women to his list because he's just too much for you! Make
him earn his compliments. Give it little by little. Make him work to stay
in your presence. If you got an ugly man, don't try to dress him up for
you because he'll think now he's too cute for just you. You'll fix him
up and he'll tear you down. Plus you'll attract other females to him.
You be the pretty one and let him be himself, and he'll cherish your beauty
forever. If you got a handsome man, make him wonder if he's handsome enough
for you. Don't over praise and don't fix up: fix you!
4. Don't marry him or let him
get you pregnant too fast!
Men love the chase, a woman who
gives in finds herself going from a happy hot girl to being his miserable
dish cleaner. It's like a game for most
men, if you're a hot girl , they will want to take you off the market
by getting you pregnant or marriage. In their minds,
this makes you theirs, so now they can go out and chase something else
because they got you already. Beware of men that
have low confidence, unattractive men, or guys that give you money.
5. Have a plan for your relationship
Know what you need in advance before
you enter a relationship.
Know your strong points
and what makes you appealing
to men. What do they want from you?
Don't just be with someone, have a detailed plan of what they can do to
make you happy with them, and how they are going to keep it up. Make sure
you get what you want. It's either you or them. Take my word on this.
If he spends on you, try to get cash and save it, so
you'll have something if he wants to play around later or leave you. This
way you're never wasting your time. Most men put on an act for
the first 30-60 days (especially if you don't give up the coochie
quick!) and then they revert to their real selves. Learn
how to keep them in their act by perfecting your own.
6. Learn how to use your C.C.
Do you know how to use your coochie control? Are
you giving it up on the first date or every time your man wants it? Then
you obviously are not using your C.C. No
matter how good you think you are in bed, there's someone out there who
will give it to your man better! Learn
how to be sparing when giving your man his rewards. It should always be
a reward for something good he's done for you. If you're giving him too
much, he'll get too used to it and find other excitement elsewhere. She
might not even be better than you, just something different from his usual
everyday woman! Don't think he'll stray if he's not getting yours. If
he's going to cheat he'll do it it regardless! Don't settle for routine
sex from him. Hold off until he deserves it. Then he'll be hungry every
time he gets it from you!! Never let your coochie become ordinary,
it's priceless!
7. Be careful of public
shows of affection
You love attention and so does your man, regardless of what you think
or what he tells you. You might think he's affectionate in public, because
he wants to show the world how much he loves you. By showing too much
affection for him in public, you are drawing other females attention to
him. They usually will want to compete with you. Worst if he's
a man you fixed up. He will take their numbers behind your back,
or do all of your friends when you're not looking. This tend to happen
a lot to pretty girls. Let him show his affection for you in the bedroom.
Then, it's all about you and you get what you want. Your guy will usually
want to kiss you while another female is looking. Just tell him "not
now honey." If it's real affection, he'll work your nana
in the bed when you get home!
Don't let your man use you as a
lure to get other women, unless this is what you want
We need strong women out there,
not Heart Broken ones.
Please email all of your girlfriends,
and all of your co-workers you love and put them on to my article!.........
Sir Ashante'
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